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Author: AdviceMan Subject: confused men
Jon Roder
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posted on 03-01-2004 at 21:51 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
confused men

I have a girlfriend and when see men I think sexual about them. Does that mean that I am gay?
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posted on 03-01-2004 at 23:01 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator


Hmm, from what u said, i don't think that you gave sufficent information for one to determine if u are gay or not. I think that you are the only one who can answer that question. Reason being, is that u don't necessarily have to gay to have sexual thoughts about someone of the same sex. People think about a lot of stuff, but it doesn't mean that they seriously want to try it. I don't see a problem with someone admiring someone else's physique and concluding that he or she is extremely sexy, whether the subject is of the same sex. We all do it. However, if u take it a few steps further and begin having sexual fantasies about the person, then it is quite possible that u may possess certain attributes which may indicate that u are in fact gay. If this is the case, you first need to be honest with yourself so that u won't hurt the people that are close to u, more specifically, ur girlfriend.
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posted on 03-01-2004 at 23:04 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator


I think that you are just bicurious. I think there is nothing wrong with that. I think you should ask your girlfriend if you and her could have a threesome.
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posted on 03-01-2004 at 23:46 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator


Whoa! And what if his girlfriend is not 'bicurious'? God, I could just imagine the scene. I think suggesting a threesome may be a risky move especially since you are not even sure of ur own sexual orientation. But hey, you know ur girlfriend and you should have an idea of what her reaction is likely to be to such a bold suggestion. You need to put a great deal of thought into your next move. Think!
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posted on 03-02-2004 at 01:02 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
comfused men

Well, my girlfriend always asks me if I think that guys hot and I tell her yes. She thinks its a turn on. So should I ask her if she would like a threesome with another male?
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No. Bicurious/bisexual men are one of the main reasons AIDS has spread to the heterosexual community. Decide on your own if you're gay or not, but don't coerce some innocent girl into taking unnecessary disease risks just to satisfy your curiosity. And personally I believe that if you want gay sex even only part of the time, you're gay...period.
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posted on 08-29-2004 at 03:49 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator


Confused M: Yes you are gay but your proud of it my good man!

Now come on out of that closet like a good queer and turn off that light behind you.

Oh yeah. Be sure to leave me your girl friends telephone number.

Seems to me you won't be needing it anymore.

Que! Saraa! Saraa!

(put on a CD playing the Village Peoples Song)! Macho! Macho! Man!
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