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slapjack
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Registered: 12-12-2011 Location:
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posted on 12-13-2011 at 00:51 |
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Finding Good Values in an American Woman
I have read where some guys who go for 'mail order brides' think that American women are generally bad or hard to deal with. But there are still some women in the US who have good traditional values.
There are sub-cultures of people with traditional values in this country. One group I am thinking of are very conservative home schooled families where the girls are not allowed to date as teens. The philosophy, depending on the family, may be that young people should not date or do anything similar until they are ready to marry. Dating causes you to bond emotionally in inappropriate ways with people you aren't even supposed to marry. When you get old enough to marry, then you can court.
Courting is different from dating. If you court, you may have to go to the girl's home most of the time. You may need a chaperone. You probably won't be allowed to kiss or maybe even hold hands.
But it is very likely that the girl is a virgin. She may have been taught that women are to submit to their husbands, be diligent around the home, raise children, etc. If you are okay with your wife not working outside the home, this may be a good background for your wife.
Usually, families like this are devout Christians, and you would need to be one, too, to be considered and to be a suitable match for a girl like this.
So don't think you have to go overseas to find these kind of values.
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carrollhodge
Junior Member
Posts: 27
Registered: 06-16-2020 Location: Redding, CA
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posted on 06-25-2020 at 18:41 |
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Weak men need weak women
Your post reminded me of my upbringing. My father, the typical Pentecostal minister, was STRICT beyond belief. He's dead now, and maybe that's why I finally came out as gay after all these years.
Women have the same ego that men have, so when we are brow-beaten down for years and become ultra miserable, no marriage works, or self esteem. I was miserable for more than 50 years of my life. What a WASTE!
Women need to be adventurous and challenging. We need LIFE! If you want a docile little wife who only speaks when spoken to, go F**CK yourself! Sorry but I really get upset about 'values' when preached by the man.
IMO men want wives to be trophies. I am no trophy. Never again. I put in 60-80 hour weeks all year and run a family business. My daughters respect me. My ex does too but not because he wants to. I won't accept anything else.
American men who travel to foriegn countries for brides can't handle strong american women life me.Funny, I have a p**ssy but men act like p**ssies sometimes. Ironic (laughter from me).
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