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Author: Francie_81 Subject: Afraid to try again
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posted on 03-19-2006 at 09:48 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Afraid to try again

Im 17 and a virgin, but am thinking about having sex with this guy (not a virgin!)

We tried to do it one time, but I couldn't and backed out after getting so close. I think I was just too nervous, but I felt soooo bad afterwards. This guy wants to have sex and so do I for for the most part, but I'm afraid to try again cuz i dont wanna leave him hangin like last time. I'm even starting to hesitate about kissing him since I don't wanna lead him on, just to end up like last time.

Has anyone else had this problem?!!?!?!?!? WHAT DO I DOOOOO
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posted on 03-19-2006 at 15:54 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
answer

Hey I kinda know what you may be going through, and the answer is quite simple. It's not worth it, don't have sex.
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posted on 03-20-2006 at 10:48 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
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drink about half a glass a vodka beforehand. you wont be drunk - just all ur nerves will be gone and it will get you in the mood...only do this if u wanna have sex with this guy tho, if u feel your not ready then tell him to wait for you and if he cant accept that then he knows where the door is
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posted on 03-20-2006 at 21:17 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
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Good idea, but I don't want to have to drink to have sex. I don't have bottles of vodka just layin around either... Besides virgins, this is the nicest and most understanding guy I think I'll meet, so it would definately be good for my first time...since I can't wait till marriage lol... ANY OTHER IDEAS?!?!?!
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posted on 03-21-2006 at 16:18 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Vodka? Uhh no.

Yeah.. don't go wit the vodka idea, you shouldn't have to be tipsy to have sexx. Wut you need to do is lyke, relax, tell him your nervous, take it slow.
It's really not that big of a deal either, I lost my virginity and wuz rele nervous beforehand, but when it wuz done I wanted to do it again;)
Just chill, do it, u will enjoy it.
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posted on 03-23-2006 at 23:54 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
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Yeah, you shouldn't be afraid about it. But you should masturbate first to get comfy and to know whats good down there before you let a guy fumble his way around.
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posted on 03-26-2006 at 12:26 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Alone wanting sex!!!

I have thought about selling my virginity, because finding a girl just seems to hard, there to hard to talk to, they don't let you in, there protectective zone..........i have thought about suicide......and depression is sucking me in, i am 18 and sex seems to be the biggest thing on everybodies mind.........i just want that special someone to reach out and approach me........i am 18 and a guy........;(..
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posted on 03-26-2006 at 18:25 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Actually...

Don't believe the lie that having sex will end all of your problems and make you feel great. I know plently of people, who after casual sex feel empty and depressed....people sleeping around aren't having as much fun as you think.
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posted on 03-27-2006 at 11:02 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Reality

Hey casanova am 24,good looking,cool and I still haven't lost it either so don't panic.Am assuming your the nice quiet type abit like myself and if soo well you have to start getting out more (socially) and meeting people.I've started to go out alot more often @weekends and I know I'll become more confident in myself to approaching women,I knew it was the only way.Yes women are tricky customers and men are getting rejected all the time and am guessing most of them move on and you should just look on it as their loss not yours and feel great about yourself for trying because thats what life is all about.To all the ones who rather just wait for the right one to come along is kinda nonsense because to me its the same as saying when will we get a win in the lotto.And as I said in previous posts I wouldn't have a problem paying to lose it should I not soon because to be honest am all fired up.But am telling ya if ya want something in life ya have to go for it because no one else will ONLY YOU and keep so your head up.Good Luck!!!
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posted on 03-27-2006 at 11:06 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
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Hey casanova am 24,good looking,cool and I still haven't lost it either so don't panic.Am assuming your the nice quiet type abit like myself and if soo well you have to start getting out more (socially) and meeting people.I've started to go out alot more often @weekends and I know I'll become more confident in myself to approaching women,I knew it was the only way.Yes women are tricky customers and men are getting rejected all the time and am guessing most of them move on and you should just look on it as their loss not yours and feel great about yourself for trying because thats what life is all about.To all the ones who rather just wait for the right one to come along is kinda nonsense because to me its the same as saying when will we get a win in the lotto.And as I said in previous posts I wouldn't have a problem paying to lose it should I not soon because to be honest am all fired up.But am telling ya if ya want something in life ya have to go for it because no one else will ONLY YOU so keep your head up.Good Luck!!! [smile]
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